From: owner-loud-fans-digest@smoe.org (loud-fans-digest) To: loud-fans-digest@smoe.org Subject: loud-fans-digest V10 #77 Reply-To: loud-fans@smoe.org Sender: owner-loud-fans-digest@smoe.org Errors-To: owner-loud-fans-digest@smoe.org Precedence: bulk loud-fans-digest Saturday, December 10 2011 Volume 10 : Number 077 Today's Subjects: ----------------- Re: [loud-fans] Andy spotting pt. 2 [Andrew Hamlin Subject: Re: [loud-fans] Andy spotting pt. 2 I'm afraid that guy's a *lot* better looking than me. Stunning small animals at ranges of up to 25 yards, Andy "If you're not interested in going out again, then I would have preferred if you hadn't given those mixed signals. I feel led on. We have a number of things in common. I'll name a few things: First, weve both very intelligent. Second, we both like classical music so much that we go to classical music performances by ourselves. In fact, the number one interest that I would want to have in common with a woman with whom I'm in a relationship is a liking of classical music. I wouldn't be seriously involved with a woman if she didn't like classical music. You said that you're planning to go the NY Philharmonic more often in the future. As I said, I go to the NY Philharmonic often. You're very busy. It would be very convenient for you to date me because we have the same interests. We already go to classical music performances by ourselves. If we go to classical music performances together, it wouldn't take any significant additional time on your part. According to the internet, you're 33 or 32, so, at least from my point of view, we're a good match in terms of age. I could name more things that we have in common, but I'll stop here. I don't understand why you apparently don't want to go out with me again. We have numerous things in common. I assume that you find me physically attractive. If you didn't find me physically attractive, then it would have been irrational for you to go out with me in the first place. After all, our first date was not a blind date. You already knew what I looked like before our date. Perhaps, you're unimpressed that I manage my familys investments and my own investments. Perhaps, you dont think I have a "real" job. Well, Ive done very well as an investment manager. I've made my parents several millions of dollars. That's real money. That's not monopoly money. In my opinion, if I make real money, it's a real job. Donald Trump's children work for his company. Do they have 'real' jobs? I think so. George Soros's sons help manage their family investments. Do they have "real" jobs? I think so. In addition, Im both a right-brain and left-brain man, given that Im both an investment manager and a philosopher/writer. Thats a unique characteristic; most people aren't like that. I've never been as disappointed and sad about having difficulty about getting a second date as I am with you. I've gone out with a lot of women in my life. (FYI, I'm not a serial dater. Sometimes, I've only gone out with a woman for one date.) People dont grow on trees. I hope you appreciate the potential we have. Am I sensitive person? Sure, I am. I think it's better to be sensitive than to be insensitive. There are too many impolite, insensitive people in the world." - --selected consecutive paragraphs from what is, apparently, one very long email from an NYC-area investment banker to a woman he took out on one date; read the whole thing at http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/07/investment-manager-embarrassing-email_n_1135279.html ------------------------------ End of loud-fans-digest V10 #77 *******************************