From: owner-joni-digest@smoe.org (JMDL Digest) To: joni-digest@smoe.org Subject: JMDL Digest V2011 #13 Reply-To: joni@smoe.org Sender: owner-joni-digest@smoe.org Errors-To: owner-joni-digest@smoe.org Precedence: bulk Unsubscribe: mailto:joni-digest-request@smoe.org?body=unsubscribe Website: http://jmdl.com JMDL Digest Friday, January 14 2011 Volume 2011 : Number 013 ========== TOPICS and authors in this Digest: -------- Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing ["John van Tiel" ] Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing [Lc Stanley ] Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing [Catherine McKay ] Re: Miss O'Dell [Catherine McKay ] RE: Miss O'Dell [Susan Tierney McNamara ] re: and did you know (sjc) [c Karma ] Re: and did you know (sjc) [Catherine McKay ] Re: Miss O'Dell [Lieve Reckers ] Re: and did you know (sjc) [Bob.Muller@Fluor.com] Re: and did you know (sjc) [Dave Blackburn ] Re: and did you know (sjc) NJC [Bob.Muller@Fluor.com] RE: Miss O'Dell [Susan Tierney McNamara ] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 09:39:26 +0100 From: "John van Tiel" Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing What's next? Ban all Oxford and Webster's English Language dictionaries from public libraries in Canada because they are filled with words that may be abusive to the good people of the land? Am I living in the wrong country? We even get them on prime time tv here in the Netherlands. The shame! John from the Netherlands NP: Kraftwerk - Autobahn ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 06:39:01 EST From: FMYFL@aol.com Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing Laura, you might be a Gemini now that Ophuchicus has been added to the zodiac signs :-) Happy Friday Jimmy In a message dated 1/13/2011 10:08:32 PM Eastern Standard Time, sillyseabird7@yahoo.com writes: > I haven't mellowed enough to like being > thought of as a "cancer" though. If I had any other zodiac sign, I would > be > more apt to like it. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 04:41:17 -0800 (PST) From: Mags Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing even though I didn't articulate as such, this is exactly what I meant. Our Canadian television and radio stations have all sorts of words that well... never mind. Hopefully, the uproar over this will effect change on that score. Mags > What's next? > Ban all Oxford and Webster's English Language dictionaries > from public > libraries in Canada because they are filled with words that > may be abusive to > the good people of the land? > > Am I living in the wrong country? We even get them on prime > time tv here in > the Netherlands. The shame! > > John from the Netherlands > > NP: Kraftwerk - Autobahn ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 07:59:50 -0500 From: Marianne Rizzo Subject: njc, best hugs Happy Friday everyone. I just gave one of my students a hug in the hall and . . . I turned to other students in the hallway and said, "Don't you just love it when you give someone a hug and you can hear their heart beat?" then, the student who hugged me said, "That wasn't my heart you heard . . . that was my soul." ! We have a lot of hugs here. it's a ripple . . spread the love There is one boy who gives the best hugs (he's gay) when he hugs you, it is STRONG and KIND and it feels real good . . . sincere. . . . I am inspired my his hugs. IF WE ARE GOING TO GIVE A HUG It might as well be a good one . . . BEST hugs to you. LO VE Marianne ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 05:17:11 -0800 (PST) From: Lc Stanley Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing So under the zodiac signs are some people now going to be called phuchs? ________________________________ From: "FMYFL@aol.com" To: sillyseabird7@yahoo.com; margaret_elmtree@yahoo.ca; joni@smoe.org Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 5:39:01 AM Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing Laura, you might be a Gemini now that Ophuchicus has been added to the zodiac signs :-) Happy Friday Jimmy In a message dated 1/13/2011 10:08:32 PM Eastern Standard Time, sillyseabird7@yahoo.com writes: I haven't mellowed enough to like being >thought of as a "cancer" though. If I had any other zodiac sign, I would be >more apt to like it. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 08:23:56 -0500 From: Bob.Muller@Fluor.com Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing And in another case of synchronicity, I was driving to work this AM and what should come on but The Heroes of Hiphopracy's "The Language Of Violence" which also features that same word, along with many others. Also was very powerful relative to its message regarding the recent tragedies in Tucson. Mike Pritchard - this track was on one of the CD's you gave me in Barcelona. I listen to them and enjoy them to this day. Happy Friday Hippies! Bob NP: Linda Perhacs, "Morning Colors" - ------------------------------------------------------------ The information transmitted is intended only for the person or entity to which it is addressed and may contain proprietary, business-confidential and/or privileged material. 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I turned to other students in the hallway and said, > "Don't you just love it when you give someone a hug and you can hear their > heart beat?" > then, the student who hugged me said, > "That wasn't my heart you heard . . . that was my soul." > > ! > > We have a lot of hugs here. > > it's a ripple . . > spread the love > > There is one boy who gives the best hugs (he's gay) > when he hugs you, it is STRONG and KIND and it feels real good . . . > sincere. . . . > > I am inspired my his hugs. > IF WE ARE GOING TO GIVE A HUG It might as well be a good one . . . > BEST hugs to you. > > LO > VE > Marianne ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 05:36:10 -0800 (PST) From: Catherine McKay Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing I'm going to call them Ochipinti or Ocho Rios. I can't handle that other thing. I'm turning into my mother who could never pronounce anything "foreign." - ----- Original Message ---- > From: Lc Stanley > To: FMYFL@aol.com > Cc: Joni List > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 8:17:11 AM > Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing > > So under the zodiac signs are some people now going to be called phuchs? > > > > ________________________________ > From: "FMYFL@aol.com" > To: sillyseabird7@yahoo.com; margaret_elmtree@yahoo.ca; joni@smoe.org > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 5:39:01 AM > Subject: Re: up for discussion NJC money for nothing > > Laura, you might be a Gemini now that Ophuchicus has been added to the zodiac > signs :-) > > Happy Friday > Jimmy > > In a message dated 1/13/2011 10:08:32 PM Eastern Standard Time, > sillyseabird7@yahoo.com writes: > > > I haven't mellowed enough to like being > >thought of as a "cancer" though. If I had any other zodiac sign, I would be > >more apt to like it. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 09:35:42 -0500 From: Susan Tierney McNamara Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell Thanks for this! I usually don't read these kind of books. The writing is usually dismal! The thing that I like about it is a somewhat rare look into how Joni relates to other women. I know she has had close women friends in her life but her relationships with men are talked about much more (ad nauseum sometimes). I love it when people have adult conversations about very emotionally charged issues. How rare! Thanks, Sue - -----Original Message----- From: owner-joni@smoe.org [mailto:owner-joni@smoe.org] On Behalf Of Randy Remote Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2011 6:48 PM To: Joni Subject: Miss O'Dell Miss O'Dell My Hard Days and Long Nights with The Beatles, The Stones, Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, and the Women They Loved by Chris O'Dell publ 2009 Very readable account of young American woman who gets a job with Apple Records in London, eventually becoming best friends with Patti Harrison, and is at ground zero as George and Ringo's marriages implode. Many other exploits in the upper strata and dark corners of rock and roll. First Joni mention is when O'Dell is managing CSNY's reunion tour of '74 At the Vancouver Airport we encountered a little problem. Joni Mitchell was supposed to meet us at the airport, and she was late. (I'd soon discover she was often late.) I used all my powers of persuasion to convince the folks at the airport to hold the plane. We were flying commercially, and we'd booked half the plane, so they were willing to inconvenience the other passengers to keep us happy. The other jc is during the Rolling Thunder Tour, road manager O'Dell has begun a tour romance with playwright Sam Shepard, married 32 year-old Ilinois farmboy, hired by Dylan to write a screenplay. A few weeks later, we were in Niagara Falls for two shows. After the evening show I looked all over the place for Sam. I couldn't find him anywhere. He wasn't in his hotel room. He didn't answer his phone. Nobody had seen him. The next morning I was headed downstairs for breakfast when I heard someone call out, "Have you seen Sam?" "Oh yeah, he was hanging with Joni Mitchell all evening," someone else said. Joni Mitchell? I thought. My heart was sinking. When I saw Sam later that morning, I ignored him. He looked guilty. A few nights later in Rochester, New York, he didn't show up at the hospitality room after the show. That was where I'd usually meet him and then we'd spend the rest of the evening together. Oh no, I thought, maybe this thing with Joni is more than a flirtation. I went up to his room and knocked on the door. "Who's there?" "It's Chris." Ten seconds. Thirty seconds. A minute passed. He finally opened the door and then retreated to the bed where he lay down, hands underneath his head, looking at me with a sweet little smile. I sat down at the foot of the bed, my back to the door. "What's going on, Sam? Why aren't you downstairs?" "I'm tired. I've just been lying around here." Behind me I heard the door to his room open and close. "Oh, what's that?" he said, all innocent like, looking over my shoulder. "Sam, who was here?" I knew perfectly well who it was. Joni had been hiding in the bathroom, and when my back was to the door, she sneaked out behind me. "No one," he lied. "You know what?" I said on my way out the door, "You're a shit." As the tour continues, O'Dell decides to avoid both Joni and Shepard, as much as possible, but in Bangor, Maine, while delivering the next itinerary, Joni, in her dressing room, asks O'Dell if she can sit down for a minute. "How are you doing?" she said, putting her makeup on the table and swiveling in her chair to look at me. Oh shit, I thought. She wants to have "a talk." I wasn't real comfortable with that idea. All I wanted to do was get out of there. "I'm fine," I said cheerily. "You know, I really admire the way that you're handling this thing," she said. Of course, I knew what "thing" she was referring to. "You just seem so confident and able to deal with this," she said. "I really respect that. I wish I could do the same." I was stunned. Here we were, two women vying for the same guy, but instead of doing that catty, competitive female "I've got him," or "I hate you for having him" thing, she was being real. Real. That really got to me. Of course, we both knew deep down that neither one of us "had" Sam- if he could cheat on his wife with me and then cheat on me with Joni, he was going to cheat on Joni sometime, too. What a crazy, conflicted situation: we were both head over heels for a man who had a wife waiting for him at home. "Joni, you have no idea how much I appreciate what you just said," I said. And that's as far as we went with it. A few days later Joni sang the song "Coyote" for the first time. It's a song about Sam Shepard and how he had "a woman at home and another woman down the hall" and he wanted her anyway. I was the woman down the hall. I loved the lines Joni wrote about how we licked our wounds and took temporary lovers, using "pills and powders" to get us through the drama. She was right. I had my pills, my powders, and my whiskey to help me through the drama of those hard days and nights. I knew I had to march forward-the show must go on. But that thing with Sam hurt like hell. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 07:09:00 -0800 (PST) From: Catherine McKay Subject: Re: Miss O'Dell Interesting because, the way I read it, while it can be seen as an "adult" conversation, it could also come across (maybe to my paranoid mind alone) as equally an extremely good manipulation on the part of Joni and an effective way of shutting the other person down before she can stir anything up. Maybe that's what adult conversations are, in some ways. There really is no good way of dealing with this stuff, not that I can think of: how to explain to someone whose boyfriend is already cheating on his wife that he's now cheating on her with you, but trying to make you feel good about it! Definitely better than a cat fight! (I know cat fights can be fun to watch too, so, mrow, MROW!) I agree with you about Joni's talking about men sometimes ad nauseum. She has to have at least one good female friend, possibly one who also plays pool! - ----- Original Message ---- > From: Susan Tierney McNamara > To: Randy Remote ; Joni > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 9:35:42 AM > Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell > > Thanks for this! I usually don't read these kind of books. The writing is >usually dismal! The thing that I like about it is a somewhat rare look into how >Joni relates to other women. I know she has had close women friends in her life >but her relationships with men are talked about much more (ad nauseum >sometimes). I love it when people have adult conversations about very >emotionally charged issues. How rare! Thanks, Sue > > -----Original Message----- > From: owner-joni@smoe.org [mailto:owner-joni@smoe.org] On Behalf Of Randy >Remote > Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2011 6:48 PM > To: Joni > Subject: Miss O'Dell > > Miss O'Dell > My Hard Days and Long Nights with The Beatles, The > Stones, Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, and the Women They > Loved by Chris O'Dell > publ 2009 > > Very readable account of young American woman who gets a > job with Apple Records in London, eventually becoming best > friends with Patti Harrison, and is at ground zero as George and > Ringo's marriages implode. Many other exploits in the upper > strata and dark corners of rock and roll. > > First Joni mention is when O'Dell is managing CSNY's reunion > tour of '74 > At the Vancouver Airport we encountered a little problem. Joni > Mitchell was supposed to meet us at the airport, and she was > late. (I'd soon discover she was often late.) I used all my powers > of persuasion to convince the folks at the airport to hold the plane. > We were flying commercially, and we'd booked half the plane, > so they were willing to inconvenience the other passengers to > keep us happy. > > The other jc is during the Rolling Thunder Tour, road manager > O'Dell has begun a tour romance with playwright Sam Shepard, > married 32 year-old Ilinois farmboy, hired by Dylan to write a > screenplay. > A few weeks later, we were in Niagara Falls for two shows. After > the evening show I looked all over the place for Sam. I couldn't > find him anywhere. He wasn't in his hotel room. He didn't answer > his phone. Nobody had seen him. > The next morning I was headed downstairs for breakfast > when I heard someone call out, "Have you seen Sam?" > "Oh yeah, he was hanging with Joni Mitchell all evening," > someone else said. > Joni Mitchell? I thought. My heart was sinking. When I > saw Sam later that morning, I ignored him. He looked guilty. > A few nights later in Rochester, New York, he didn't show > up at the hospitality room after the show. That was where > I'd usually meet him and then we'd spend the rest of the > evening together. > Oh no, I thought, maybe this thing with Joni is more > than a flirtation. I went up to his room and knocked on the door. > "Who's there?" > "It's Chris." > Ten seconds. Thirty seconds. A minute passed. > He finally opened the door and then retreated to the bed > where he lay down, hands underneath his head, looking at > me with a sweet little smile. I sat down at the foot of the > bed, my back to the door. > "What's going on, Sam? Why aren't you downstairs?" > "I'm tired. I've just been lying around here." > Behind me I heard the door to his room open and close. > "Oh, what's that?" he said, all innocent like, looking over > my shoulder. > "Sam, who was here?" I knew perfectly well who it was. > Joni had been hiding in the bathroom, and when my back > was to the door, she sneaked out behind me. > "No one," he lied. > "You know what?" I said on my way out the door, > "You're a shit." > > As the tour continues, O'Dell decides to avoid both Joni and > Shepard, as much as possible, but in Bangor, Maine, while > delivering the next itinerary, Joni, in her dressing room, asks > O'Dell if she can sit down for a minute. > "How are you doing?" she said, putting her makeup on > the table and swiveling in her chair to look at me. Oh shit, > I thought. She wants to have "a talk." I wasn't real comfortable > with that idea. All I wanted to do was get out of there. > "I'm fine," I said cheerily. > "You know, I really admire the way that you're handling > this thing," she said. Of course, I knew what "thing" she was > referring to. > "You just seem so confident and able to deal with this," > she said. "I really respect that. I wish I could do the same." > I was stunned. Here we were, two women vying for the > same guy, but instead of doing that catty, competitive > female "I've got him," or "I hate you for having him" thing, > she was being real. Real. That really got to me. > Of course, we both knew deep down that neither one of > us "had" Sam- if he could cheat on his wife with me and then > cheat on me with Joni, he was going to cheat on Joni > sometime, too. What a crazy, conflicted situation: we were > both head over heels for a man who had a wife waiting for > him at home. > "Joni, you have no idea how much I appreciate what you > just said," I said. > And that's as far as we went with it. A few days later > Joni sang the song "Coyote" for the first time. It's a song > about Sam Shepard and how he had "a woman at home > and another woman down the hall" and he wanted her anyway. > I was the woman down the hall. I loved the lines Joni wrote > about how we licked our wounds and took temporary lovers, > using "pills and powders" to get us through the drama. > She was right. I had my pills, my powders, and my > whiskey to help me through the drama of those hard days > and nights. I knew I had to march forward-the show must > go on. > But that thing with Sam hurt like hell. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 10:29:20 -0500 From: Susan Tierney McNamara Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell Yes, another reaction I had to the conversation is it was adult but it may have also been manipulative or condescending on Joni's part (although she did admit to being vulnerable). But for two women sleeping with the same man to stand in a room together and have a somewhat congenial conversation is amazing. I've been known to draw blood in such situations!!! :-) - -----Original Message----- From: Catherine McKay [mailto:anima_rising@yahoo.ca] Sent: Friday, January 14, 2011 10:09 AM To: Susan Tierney McNamara; Randy Remote; Joni Subject: Re: Miss O'Dell Interesting because, the way I read it, while it can be seen as an "adult" conversation, it could also come across (maybe to my paranoid mind alone) as equally an extremely good manipulation on the part of Joni and an effective way of shutting the other person down before she can stir anything up. Maybe that's what adult conversations are, in some ways. There really is no good way of dealing with this stuff, not that I can think of: how to explain to someone whose boyfriend is already cheating on his wife that he's now cheating on her with you, but trying to make you feel good about it! Definitely better than a cat fight! (I know cat fights can be fun to watch too, so, mrow, MROW!) I agree with you about Joni's talking about men sometimes ad nauseum. She has to have at least one good female friend, possibly one who also plays pool! - ----- Original Message ---- > From: Susan Tierney McNamara > To: Randy Remote ; Joni > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 9:35:42 AM > Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell > > Thanks for this! I usually don't read these kind of books. The writing is >usually dismal! The thing that I like about it is a somewhat rare look into how >Joni relates to other women. I know she has had close women friends in her life >but her relationships with men are talked about much more (ad nauseum >sometimes). I love it when people have adult conversations about very >emotionally charged issues. How rare! Thanks, Sue > > -----Original Message----- > From: owner-joni@smoe.org [mailto:owner-joni@smoe.org] On Behalf Of Randy >Remote > Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2011 6:48 PM > To: Joni > Subject: Miss O'Dell > > Miss O'Dell > My Hard Days and Long Nights with The Beatles, The > Stones, Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, and the Women They > Loved by Chris O'Dell > publ 2009 > > Very readable account of young American woman who gets a > job with Apple Records in London, eventually becoming best > friends with Patti Harrison, and is at ground zero as George and > Ringo's marriages implode. Many other exploits in the upper > strata and dark corners of rock and roll. > > First Joni mention is when O'Dell is managing CSNY's reunion > tour of '74 > At the Vancouver Airport we encountered a little problem. Joni > Mitchell was supposed to meet us at the airport, and she was > late. (I'd soon discover she was often late.) I used all my powers > of persuasion to convince the folks at the airport to hold the plane. > We were flying commercially, and we'd booked half the plane, > so they were willing to inconvenience the other passengers to > keep us happy. > > The other jc is during the Rolling Thunder Tour, road manager > O'Dell has begun a tour romance with playwright Sam Shepard, > married 32 year-old Ilinois farmboy, hired by Dylan to write a > screenplay. > A few weeks later, we were in Niagara Falls for two shows. After > the evening show I looked all over the place for Sam. I couldn't > find him anywhere. He wasn't in his hotel room. He didn't answer > his phone. Nobody had seen him. > The next morning I was headed downstairs for breakfast > when I heard someone call out, "Have you seen Sam?" > "Oh yeah, he was hanging with Joni Mitchell all evening," > someone else said. > Joni Mitchell? I thought. My heart was sinking. When I > saw Sam later that morning, I ignored him. He looked guilty. > A few nights later in Rochester, New York, he didn't show > up at the hospitality room after the show. That was where > I'd usually meet him and then we'd spend the rest of the > evening together. > Oh no, I thought, maybe this thing with Joni is more > than a flirtation. I went up to his room and knocked on the door. > "Who's there?" > "It's Chris." > Ten seconds. Thirty seconds. A minute passed. > He finally opened the door and then retreated to the bed > where he lay down, hands underneath his head, looking at > me with a sweet little smile. I sat down at the foot of the > bed, my back to the door. > "What's going on, Sam? Why aren't you downstairs?" > "I'm tired. I've just been lying around here." > Behind me I heard the door to his room open and close. > "Oh, what's that?" he said, all innocent like, looking over > my shoulder. > "Sam, who was here?" I knew perfectly well who it was. > Joni had been hiding in the bathroom, and when my back > was to the door, she sneaked out behind me. > "No one," he lied. > "You know what?" I said on my way out the door, > "You're a shit." > > As the tour continues, O'Dell decides to avoid both Joni and > Shepard, as much as possible, but in Bangor, Maine, while > delivering the next itinerary, Joni, in her dressing room, asks > O'Dell if she can sit down for a minute. > "How are you doing?" she said, putting her makeup on > the table and swiveling in her chair to look at me. Oh shit, > I thought. She wants to have "a talk." I wasn't real comfortable > with that idea. All I wanted to do was get out of there. > "I'm fine," I said cheerily. > "You know, I really admire the way that you're handling > this thing," she said. Of course, I knew what "thing" she was > referring to. > "You just seem so confident and able to deal with this," > she said. "I really respect that. I wish I could do the same." > I was stunned. Here we were, two women vying for the > same guy, but instead of doing that catty, competitive > female "I've got him," or "I hate you for having him" thing, > she was being real. Real. That really got to me. > Of course, we both knew deep down that neither one of > us "had" Sam- if he could cheat on his wife with me and then > cheat on me with Joni, he was going to cheat on Joni > sometime, too. What a crazy, conflicted situation: we were > both head over heels for a man who had a wife waiting for > him at home. > "Joni, you have no idea how much I appreciate what you > just said," I said. > And that's as far as we went with it. A few days later > Joni sang the song "Coyote" for the first time. It's a song > about Sam Shepard and how he had "a woman at home > and another woman down the hall" and he wanted her anyway. > I was the woman down the hall. I loved the lines Joni wrote > about how we licked our wounds and took temporary lovers, > using "pills and powders" to get us through the drama. > She was right. I had my pills, my powders, and my > whiskey to help me through the drama of those hard days > and nights. I knew I had to march forward-the show must > go on. > But that thing with Sam hurt like hell. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 15:48:40 +0000 From: c Karma Subject: re: and did you know (sjc) I love this description for the Joni Mitchell Brazilian panties: http://www.journelle.com/marlies-dekkers-joni-mitchell-brazilian-brief.html We are women of heart and mind, never enough time on our hands, sometimes we are just like silly girls, when love makes fools of us. We are ladies in cities, and we think we love them all (the one who writes us letters, the one who sometimes calls), we are, sometimes, much too busy being free. A taste for the unconventional, a fierce joy in the every day, a tiny velvet coyote to take with you everywhere , no regrets coyote, none at all. Hmmm. Be the first one to review...? Oh Margaret! CC ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 08:01:48 -0800 (PST) From: Catherine McKay Subject: Re: and did you know (sjc) WOW! $62 a pair! And that's the sale price! These women may not have enough time on their hands, but they apparently have way too much money! - ----- Original Message ---- > From: c Karma > To: joni@smoe.org; guitarzan@hughes.net > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 10:48:40 AM > Subject: re: and did you know (sjc) > > I love this description for the Joni Mitchell Brazilian panties: > http://www.journelle.com/marlies-dekkers-joni-mitchell-brazilian-brief.html > We are women of heart and mind, never enough time on our hands, sometimes we > are just like silly girls, when love makes fools of us. We are ladies in > cities, and we think we love them all (the one who writes us letters, the one > who sometimes calls), we are, sometimes, much too busy being free. A taste for > the unconventional, a fierce joy in the every day, a tiny velvet coyote to > take with you everywhere , no regrets coyote, none at all. > Hmmm. Be the first one to review...? > Oh Margaret! > CC ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 16:04:31 +0000 (GMT) From: Lieve Reckers Subject: Re: Miss O'Dell I also think Joni had the easy part here: she had already come out the "winner". And she admitted herself she would not be so cool about it if she had been in O'Dell's place. It has also been occurring to me recently that, however much I think she was genuine when she wrote about heartache in her lyrics, she had some enormous advantages to help her get over the latest break-up, compared to most of us: there was always another attractive, talented, much-adored-by-others candidate ready to help her forget the previous painful experience. Not all of us are that lucky. I don't mean to be bitchy or gossipy, but this realisation really put some of the pain of her lyrics into perspective for me. So many unhappy, sensitive people in their lonely bedroom identified with those lyrics, and that is good, I am not devaluing the lyrics, but I just think that Joni was much less in a comparable situation than most of those people would ever guess. You can say that is further proof of Joni's talent, to maintain this universal appeal, and that is true. But I certainly have come to realise that on a personal level, at least when it comes to love and romance (not talking about the polio or the adoption of her child etc.), she is not really "one of us" but one of the very lucky few. Lieve ________________________________ From: Susan Tierney McNamara To: Catherine McKay ; Randy Remote ; Joni Sent: Fri, 14 January, 2011 15:29:20 Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell Yes, another reaction I had to the conversation is it was adult but it may have also been manipulative or condescending on Joni's part (although she did admit to being vulnerable). But for two women sleeping with the same man to stand in a room together and have a somewhat congenial conversation is amazing. I've been known to draw blood in such situations!!! :-) - -----Original Message----- From: Catherine McKay [mailto:anima_rising@yahoo.ca] Sent: Friday, January 14, 2011 10:09 AM To: Susan Tierney McNamara; Randy Remote; Joni Subject: Re: Miss O'Dell Interesting because, the way I read it, while it can be seen as an "adult" conversation, it could also come across (maybe to my paranoid mind alone) as equally an extremely good manipulation on the part of Joni and an effective way of shutting the other person down before she can stir anything up. Maybe that's what adult conversations are, in some ways. There really is no good way of dealing with this stuff, not that I can think of: how to explain to someone whose boyfriend is already cheating on his wife that he's now cheating on her with you, but trying to make you feel good about it! Definitely better than a cat fight! (I know cat fights can be fun to watch too, so, mrow, MROW!) I agree with you about Joni's talking about men sometimes ad nauseum. She has to have at least one good female friend, possibly one who also plays pool! - ----- Original Message ---- > From: Susan Tierney McNamara > To: Randy Remote ; Joni > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 9:35:42 AM > Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell > > Thanks for this! I usually don't read these kind of books. The writing is >usually dismal! The thing that I like about it is a somewhat rare look into how > > >Joni relates to other women. I know she has had close women friends in her life > > >but her relationships with men are talked about much more (ad nauseum >sometimes). I love it when people have adult conversations about very >emotionally charged issues. How rare! Thanks, Sue > > -----Original Message----- > From: owner-joni@smoe.org [mailto:owner-joni@smoe.org] On Behalf Of Randy >Remote > Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2011 6:48 PM > To: Joni > Subject: Miss O'Dell > > Miss O'Dell > My Hard Days and Long Nights with The Beatles, The > Stones, Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, and the Women They > Loved by Chris O'Dell > publ 2009 > > Very readable account of young American woman who gets a > job with Apple Records in London, eventually becoming best > friends with Patti Harrison, and is at ground zero as George and > Ringo's marriages implode. Many other exploits in the upper > strata and dark corners of rock and roll. > > First Joni mention is when O'Dell is managing CSNY's reunion > tour of '74 > At the Vancouver Airport we encountered a little problem. Joni > Mitchell was supposed to meet us at the airport, and she was > late. (I'd soon discover she was often late.) I used all my powers > of persuasion to convince the folks at the airport to hold the plane. > We were flying commercially, and we'd booked half the plane, > so they were willing to inconvenience the other passengers to > keep us happy. > > The other jc is during the Rolling Thunder Tour, road manager > O'Dell has begun a tour romance with playwright Sam Shepard, > married 32 year-old Ilinois farmboy, hired by Dylan to write a > screenplay. > A few weeks later, we were in Niagara Falls for two shows. After > the evening show I looked all over the place for Sam. I couldn't > find him anywhere. He wasn't in his hotel room. He didn't answer > his phone. Nobody had seen him. > The next morning I was headed downstairs for breakfast > when I heard someone call out, "Have you seen Sam?" > "Oh yeah, he was hanging with Joni Mitchell all evening," > someone else said. > Joni Mitchell? I thought. My heart was sinking. When I > saw Sam later that morning, I ignored him. He looked guilty. > A few nights later in Rochester, New York, he didn't show > up at the hospitality room after the show. That was where > I'd usually meet him and then we'd spend the rest of the > evening together. > Oh no, I thought, maybe this thing with Joni is more > than a flirtation. I went up to his room and knocked on the door. > "Who's there?" > "It's Chris." > Ten seconds. Thirty seconds. A minute passed. > He finally opened the door and then retreated to the bed > where he lay down, hands underneath his head, looking at > me with a sweet little smile. I sat down at the foot of the > bed, my back to the door. > "What's going on, Sam? Why aren't you downstairs?" > "I'm tired. I've just been lying around here." > Behind me I heard the door to his room open and close. > "Oh, what's that?" he said, all innocent like, looking over > my shoulder. > "Sam, who was here?" I knew perfectly well who it was. > Joni had been hiding in the bathroom, and when my back > was to the door, she sneaked out behind me. > "No one," he lied. > "You know what?" I said on my way out the door, > "You're a shit." > > As the tour continues, O'Dell decides to avoid both Joni and > Shepard, as much as possible, but in Bangor, Maine, while > delivering the next itinerary, Joni, in her dressing room, asks > O'Dell if she can sit down for a minute. > "How are you doing?" she said, putting her makeup on > the table and swiveling in her chair to look at me. Oh shit, > I thought. She wants to have "a talk." I wasn't real comfortable > with that idea. All I wanted to do was get out of there. > "I'm fine," I said cheerily. > "You know, I really admire the way that you're handling > this thing," she said. Of course, I knew what "thing" she was > referring to. > "You just seem so confident and able to deal with this," > she said. "I really respect that. I wish I could do the same." > I was stunned. Here we were, two women vying for the > same guy, but instead of doing that catty, competitive > female "I've got him," or "I hate you for having him" thing, > she was being real. Real. That really got to me. > Of course, we both knew deep down that neither one of > us "had" Sam- if he could cheat on his wife with me and then > cheat on me with Joni, he was going to cheat on Joni > sometime, too. What a crazy, conflicted situation: we were > both head over heels for a man who had a wife waiting for > him at home. > "Joni, you have no idea how much I appreciate what you > just said," I said. > And that's as far as we went with it. A few days later > Joni sang the song "Coyote" for the first time. It's a song > about Sam Shepard and how he had "a woman at home > and another woman down the hall" and he wanted her anyway. > I was the woman down the hall. I loved the lines Joni wrote > about how we licked our wounds and took temporary lovers, > using "pills and powders" to get us through the drama. > She was right. I had my pills, my powders, and my > whiskey to help me through the drama of those hard days > and nights. I knew I had to march forward-the show must > go on. > But that thing with Sam hurt like hell. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2011 11:06:29 -0500 From: Bob.Muller@Fluor.com Subject: Re: and did you know (sjc) Probably NOT what Gail and Louise were wearing... Bob NP: Cool For August, "Big Night" - ------------------------------------------------------------ The information transmitted is intended only for the person or entity to which it is addressed and may contain proprietary, business-confidential and/or privileged material. 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On Jan 14, 2011, at 8:06 AM, Bob.Muller@Fluor.com wrote: > Probably NOT what Gail and Louise were wearing... > > Bob > > NP: Cool For August, "Big Night" > ------------------------------------------------------------ > The information transmitted is intended only for the person > or entity to which it is addressed and may contain > proprietary, business-confidential and/or privileged material. > If you are not the intended recipient of this message you are > hereby notified that any use, review, retransmission, dissemination, > distribution, reproduction or any action taken in reliance upon > this message is prohibited. 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Maybe it's the nature of her gift that it demands to be first, but not all of us have that courage. It's pretty amazing. I can paint pretty good but my art is like a neglected child that starves in a corner while I carry on with more mundane tasks. Boo hoo. :-) - -----Original Message----- From: Lieve Reckers [mailto:lievereckers@yahoo.co.uk] Sent: Friday, January 14, 2011 11:05 AM To: Susan Tierney McNamara; Catherine McKay; Randy Remote; Joni Subject: Re: Miss O'Dell I also think Joni had the easy part here: she had already come out the "winner". And she admitted herself she would not be so cool about it if she had been in O'Dell's place. It has also been occurring to me recently that, however much I think she was genuine when she wrote about heartache in her lyrics, she had some enormous advantages to help her get over the latest break-up, compared to most of us: there was always another attractive, talented, much-adored-by-others candidate ready to help her forget the previous painful experience. Not all of us are that lucky. I don't mean to be bitchy or gossipy, but this realisation really put some of the pain of her lyrics into perspective for me. So many unhappy, sensitive people in their lonely bedroom identified with those lyrics, and that is good, I am not devaluing the lyrics, but I just think that Joni was much less in a comparable situation than most of those people would ever guess. You can say that is further proof of Joni's talent, to maintain this universal appeal, and that is true. But I certainly have come to realise that on a personal level, at least when it comes to love and romance (not talking about the polio or the adoption of her child etc.), she is not really "one of us" but one of the very lucky few. Lieve ________________________________ From: Susan Tierney McNamara To: Catherine McKay ; Randy Remote ; Joni Sent: Fri, 14 January, 2011 15:29:20 Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell Yes, another reaction I had to the conversation is it was adult but it may have also been manipulative or condescending on Joni's part (although she did admit to being vulnerable). But for two women sleeping with the same man to stand in a room together and have a somewhat congenial conversation is amazing. I've been known to draw blood in such situations!!! :-) - -----Original Message----- From: Catherine McKay [mailto:anima_rising@yahoo.ca] Sent: Friday, January 14, 2011 10:09 AM To: Susan Tierney McNamara; Randy Remote; Joni Subject: Re: Miss O'Dell Interesting because, the way I read it, while it can be seen as an "adult" conversation, it could also come across (maybe to my paranoid mind alone) as equally an extremely good manipulation on the part of Joni and an effective way of shutting the other person down before she can stir anything up. Maybe that's what adult conversations are, in some ways. There really is no good way of dealing with this stuff, not that I can think of: how to explain to someone whose boyfriend is already cheating on his wife that he's now cheating on her with you, but trying to make you feel good about it! Definitely better than a cat fight! (I know cat fights can be fun to watch too, so, mrow, MROW!) I agree with you about Joni's talking about men sometimes ad nauseum. She has to have at least one good female friend, possibly one who also plays pool! - ----- Original Message ---- > From: Susan Tierney McNamara > To: Randy Remote ; Joni > Sent: Fri, January 14, 2011 9:35:42 AM > Subject: RE: Miss O'Dell > > Thanks for this! I usually don't read these kind of books. The writing is >usually dismal! The thing that I like about it is a somewhat rare look into how > > >Joni relates to other women. I know she has had close women friends in her life > > >but her relationships with men are talked about much more (ad nauseum >sometimes). I love it when people have adult conversations about very >emotionally charged issues. How rare! Thanks, Sue > > -----Original Message----- > From: owner-joni@smoe.org [mailto:owner-joni@smoe.org] On Behalf Of Randy >Remote > Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2011 6:48 PM > To: Joni > Subject: Miss O'Dell > > Miss O'Dell > My Hard Days and Long Nights with The Beatles, The > Stones, Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, and the Women They > Loved by Chris O'Dell > publ 2009 > > Very readable account of young American woman who gets a > job with Apple Records in London, eventually becoming best > friends with Patti Harrison, and is at ground zero as George and > Ringo's marriages implode. Many other exploits in the upper > strata and dark corners of rock and roll. > > First Joni mention is when O'Dell is managing CSNY's reunion > tour of '74 > At the Vancouver Airport we encountered a little problem. Joni > Mitchell was supposed to meet us at the airport, and she was > late. (I'd soon discover she was often late.) I used all my powers > of persuasion to convince the folks at the airport to hold the plane. > We were flying commercially, and we'd booked half the plane, > so they were willing to inconvenience the other passengers to > keep us happy. > > The other jc is during the Rolling Thunder Tour, road manager > O'Dell has begun a tour romance with playwright Sam Shepard, > married 32 year-old Ilinois farmboy, hired by Dylan to write a > screenplay. > A few weeks later, we were in Niagara Falls for two shows. After > the evening show I looked all over the place for Sam. I couldn't > find him anywhere. He wasn't in his hotel room. He didn't answer > his phone. Nobody had seen him. > The next morning I was headed downstairs for breakfast > when I heard someone call out, "Have you seen Sam?" > "Oh yeah, he was hanging with Joni Mitchell all evening," > someone else said. > Joni Mitchell? I thought. My heart was sinking. When I > saw Sam later that morning, I ignored him. He looked guilty. > A few nights later in Rochester, New York, he didn't show > up at the hospitality room after the show. That was where > I'd usually meet him and then we'd spend the rest of the > evening together. > Oh no, I thought, maybe this thing with Joni is more > than a flirtation. I went up to his room and knocked on the door. > "Who's there?" > "It's Chris." > Ten seconds. Thirty seconds. A minute passed. > He finally opened the door and then retreated to the bed > where he lay down, hands underneath his head, looking at > me with a sweet little smile. I sat down at the foot of the > bed, my back to the door. > "What's going on, Sam? Why aren't you downstairs?" > "I'm tired. I've just been lying around here." > Behind me I heard the door to his room open and close. > "Oh, what's that?" he said, all innocent like, looking over > my shoulder. > "Sam, who was here?" I knew perfectly well who it was. > Joni had been hiding in the bathroom, and when my back > was to the door, she sneaked out behind me. > "No one," he lied. > "You know what?" I said on my way out the door, > "You're a shit." > > As the tour continues, O'Dell decides to avoid both Joni and > Shepard, as much as possible, but in Bangor, Maine, while > delivering the next itinerary, Joni, in her dressing room, asks > O'Dell if she can sit down for a minute. > "How are you doing?" she said, putting her makeup on > the table and swiveling in her chair to look at me. Oh shit, > I thought. She wants to have "a talk." I wasn't real comfortable > with that idea. All I wanted to do was get out of there. > "I'm fine," I said cheerily. > "You know, I really admire the way that you're handling > this thing," she said. Of course, I knew what "thing" she was > referring to. > "You just seem so confident and able to deal with this," > she said. "I really respect that. I wish I could do the same." > I was stunned. Here we were, two women vying for the > same guy, but instead of doing that catty, competitive > female "I've got him," or "I hate you for having him" thing, > she was being real. Real. That really got to me. > Of course, we both knew deep down that neither one of > us "had" Sam- if he could cheat on his wife with me and then > cheat on me with Joni, he was going to cheat on Joni > sometime, too. What a crazy, conflicted situation: we were > both head over heels for a man who had a wife waiting for > him at home. > "Joni, you have no idea how much I appreciate what you > just said," I said. > And that's as far as we went with it. A few days later > Joni sang the song "Coyote" for the first time. It's a song > about Sam Shepard and how he had "a woman at home > and another woman down the hall" and he wanted her anyway. > I was the woman down the hall. I loved the lines Joni wrote > about how we licked our wounds and took temporary lovers, > using "pills and powders" to get us through the drama. > She was right. I had my pills, my powders, and my > whiskey to help me through the drama of those hard days > and nights. I knew I had to march forward-the show must > go on. > But that thing with Sam hurt like hell. ------------------------------ End of JMDL Digest V2011 #13 **************************** ------- To post messages to the list, send to joni@smoe.org. Unsubscribe by clicking here: mailto:joni-digest-request@smoe.org?body=unsubscribe -------