From: les@jmdl.com (JMDL Digest) To: joni-digest@smoe.org Subject: JMDL Digest V2002 #594 Reply-To: joni@smoe.org Sender: les@jmdl.com Errors-To: les@jmdl.com Precedence: bulk Unsubscribe: mailto:joni-digest-request@smoe.org?body=unsubscribe Archives: http://www.smoe.org/lists/joni Websites: http://www.jmdl.com http://www.jonimitchell.com JMDL Digest Monday, December 30 2002 Volume 2002 : Number 594 Sign up now for JoniFest 2003! http://www.jonifest.com ========== TOPICS and authors in this Digest: -------- Re: How do you cope and let go? njc [RoseMJoy@aol.com] Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593/Time magazine ad for travelogue [Aerchak@aol.c] Re: Album of the year? Now Phoebe njc [Susan Guzzi ] Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593/Rose's request for meds NJC [Aerchak@aol.com] Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593/ janet jackson owning joni's songs [Aerchak@ao] Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593 Italics NJC [Aerchak@aol.com] Fwd: response for help NJC [Aerchak@aol.com] Re: Album of the year? Now Phoebe njc [] Today's Library Links: December 30 [ljirvin@jmdl.com] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 22:15:08 EST From: RoseMJoy@aol.com Subject: Re: How do you cope and let go? njc In a message dated 12/29/02 9:50:18 PM Eastern Standard Time, kakkib@vzavenue.net writes: > . I know those feelings of seething rage and resentment and finally > learned that the more one focuses on them, the longer they last because > they > have a toxic way of being self-perpetuating. I've had friends ask me at > times how I ever finally got over certain bad times and in some cases it > was > because I simply got sick and tired of listening to myself focus on them! > Before I get into the hot tub...lol I hear ya Kakki. Harboring negative feelings only make you even more miserable. You only hurt yourself in the end. I've been listening to those thoughts going on in my tired little head all day. I can't sleep, can't eat and fear that I'll never be able to stop crying. The irony is the sadness and pain will actually help release you from the marriage. It's all normal and perfectly appropriate. What Bob was saying is true too, but I haven't felt it yet. The more activity you have, the less depressed you'll be. The less activity you have the more depressed. It's a vicious cycle, an emotional roller coaster. Hold on tight. rosie on a dark ride ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 22:16:02 EST From: Aerchak@aol.com Subject: Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593/Time magazine ad for travelogue The ad for Travelogue (black and white) is in the year end issue (12/30/02) with "The Whistleblowers" on the cover (all women, I love it) on page 14 on the left. ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 19:26:01 -0800 (PST) From: Susan Guzzi Subject: Re: Album of the year? Now Phoebe njc Hey Bob ... That was the other Phoebe song I included on the tape! Another one I just hadn't listened to in awhile - mostly cause almost all my Phoebe is on vinyl. But I got the turntable hooked up and running again recently. It was the middle of the night as I worked on it and I was dying to crank it up! You are correct sir, "Stand Up On The Rock" is one rockin' feel good tune. Her live version of "At Last" ... dare I say rivals Etta's. I remember her doing this live and I was cheerio mouthed, taking that one in - Wow! Peace, Susan - --- SCJoniGuy@aol.com wrote: > In a message dated 12/29/2002 8:56:01 PM Eastern Standard Time, > groovchacha@yahoo.com writes: > > > But I love "It Looks Like Snow" > > Hey - me too, especially "Stand Up On the Rock"! It's just one of those songs > that make you FEEL good, y'know? > > Of course Phoebe does a bang-up version of "A Case of You", and her live take > on "At Last" (from Rock & Soul Revue) is SO fecking unbelievable, puts poor > Joni's BSN take to shame. > > Bob > > NP: Rachel Z Trio, "Lakota" Yahoo! Mail Plus - Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus.yahoo.com ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 18:59:17 -0800 From: "kakki" Subject: Re: How do you cope and let go? njc Rose, > I can't sleep, can't eat and fear that I'll never be able to stop > crying. The irony is the sadness and pain will actually help release you from > the marriage. It's all normal and perfectly appropriate. That's all appropriate. Real human beings, no matter how long on this earth or how much they've learned still know how to cry. Get it all out - as long as it takes, I believe. >What Bob was saying is true too, but I haven't felt it yet. The more activity you have, the less > depressed you'll be. The less activity you have the more depressed. Some people are helped by lots of activity, others are helped in different ways. I tend to want to cocoon - lay out in the sun with a cigarette, music and maybe some reading material that captivates me (which may include just a trashy tabloid or maybe a travel magazine filled with photos of beautiful islands) After several weeks of this, I may eventually become a bit bored and decide it's time for a little more activity ;-) >It's a vicious cycle, an emotional roller coaster. It tis. >Hold on tight. You will. Hang in. Kakki ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 22:52:11 EST From: Aerchak@aol.com Subject: Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593/Rose's request for meds NJC I have already written to Rose suggesting Lexapro as an option. Excercise is great. Friends are great. But if someone is suffering from depression and anxiety, an antidepressant medication can really help. It should never be the only option, but believe you me, if it can keep you from turning the car on and closing the garage door, it's worth it. People still tend to be extremely ignorant and skeptical about current psychotropic meds. They can be life changing and life saving. I suffered for 20 years with incapacitating depression and therapy is wonderful and very important, excercise, friends, all of that. But when one has been abandoned, feelings can arise in a way that they never had before, depending on our history and you can wake up in a pool of blood. Obviously, I'm sensitive about this subject so I apologize for that. Andrea ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 23:07:29 EST From: Aerchak@aol.com Subject: Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593/ janet jackson owning joni's songs When someone first wrote me about this,( Janet Jackson owning Joni's songs like Michael Jacskon owns the Beatles songs) I was appalled, incredulous and astonished). Is this true? Andrea ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 23:16:40 EST From: Aerchak@aol.com Subject: Re: JMDL Digest V2002 #593 Italics NJC When people use italic script I find it extremely difficult to read AE ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 23:34:16 EST From: Aerchak@aol.com Subject: Fwd: response for help NJC Return-path: From: Aerchak@aol.com Full-name: Aerchak Message-ID: Date: Sun, 29 Dec 2002 22:34:29 EST Subject: response for help To: RoseMJoy@aol.com MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii" X-Mailer: AOL 6.0 for Windows US sub 10578 X-Converted-To-Plain-Text: from multipart/alternative by demime 0.97c X-Converted-To-Plain-Text: Alternative section used was text/plain Rose, Absolutely, there is something you can do to help mitigate your symptoms of depression and anxiety. Go see your doctor and ask for Lexapro. It is the new (9/02) and improved version of Celexa which is an excellent antidepressant, with virtually no side effects. It is an SSRI (selective seretonin reuptake inhibitor). Do not be afraid to take an antidepressant especially at a critical time like this. You will NOT feel like a zombie or anything. Of course, the pain will still be there, but may be easier to bear. All the rest takes time and it's hell. Please contact me any time although I will be gone for a couple days. Make sure you have friends around or at least one good one. Andrea ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 30 Dec 2002 14:34:07 +0800 (PHT) From: Subject: Re: Album of the year? Now Phoebe njc Thanks for mentioning Phoebe Snow as I think her voice is, to quote Ella "molasses, molasses".. However, my intro to Phoebe Snow is this album she released in the 80s called SOMETHING REAL. I bought that on tape and I was blown away by that multi-octave voice that could go moaning low to tinkling highs and back again! Even if the album had some cringe-inducing cuts like "Best of My Love" (but her awesome high Cs are still musical in its soprano edge), there are also gems like the title cut, and "Touch Your Soul". I got her old album and was also mesmerized by the quietude and simplicity of "Never Letting Go" (a Stephen Bishop original, yes?) as well as "Poetry Man". Lately in one Spyro Gyra album (c.1980s) she sang "thoughtful and thankful" and that majestic voice booms and touches in a shapely vibrato that trite lyrics of that song. The two contemporary singers who sound like he is Toni Childs and Alana Davis. Joseph in Manila (with incipient headache) > In a message dated 12/29/2002 8:56:01 PM Eastern Standard Time, > groovchacha@yahoo.com writes: > >> But I love "It Looks Like Snow" > > Hey - me too, especially "Stand Up On the Rock"! It's just one of those > songs that make you FEEL good, y'know? > > Of course Phoebe does a bang-up version of "A Case of You", and her live > take on "At Last" (from Rock & Soul Revue) is SO fecking unbelievable, > puts poor Joni's BSN take to shame. > > Bob > > NP: Rachel Z Trio, "Lakota" ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 30 Dec 2002 02:05:16 -0500 From: ljirvin@jmdl.com Subject: Today's Library Links: December 30 On December 30 the following items were published: 1997: "Joni to mark New Year with newfound family" - The Standard (Reunion Story) http://www.jmdl.com/articles/view.cfm?id=741 1997: "New Year's party for Joni Mitchell" - Calgary Sun (News Item) http://www.jmdl.com/articles/view.cfm?id=60 1999: "The Party 2000" - Rolling Stone (Interview) http://www.jmdl.com/articles/view.cfm?id=589 ------------------------------ End of JMDL Digest V2002 #594 ***************************** ------- Post messages to the list by clicking here: mailto:joni@smoe.org Unsubscribe by clicking here: mailto:joni-digest-request@smoe.org?body=unsubscribe ------- Siquomb, isn't she? 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