From: owner-eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org (eda-thoughts-digest) To: eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org Subject: eda-thoughts-digest V4 #11 Reply-To: eda-thoughts@smoe.org Sender: owner-eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org Errors-To: owner-eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org Precedence: bulk eda-thoughts-digest Monday, January 22 2001 Volume 04 : Number 011 * If you ever wish to unsubscribe, send an email to * eda-thoughts-digest-request@smoe.org with ONLY * the word unsubscribe in the body of the email * . * PLEASE :) when you reply to this digest to send a post TO the list, * change the subject to reflect what your post is about. A subject * of Re: eda-thoughts-digest V3 #xxx or the like gives readers no clue * as to what your message is about. Today's Subjects: ----------------- ET: help [Katherine Alexandra ] ET: Human Being [Jennifer Miller ] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sat, 20 Jan 2001 21:20:02 -0800 (PST) From: Katherine Alexandra Subject: ET: help i did something that i should never have done. and i truly feel horrible about this and i'm not sure what i should do. i have the password to my boyfriends email account, he has given it to me. lately i have been going into it to check and see if he has read my emails yet. i know, its silly. it has been truly innocent until now. i saw an email from his parents, and human nature took over and i decided to just take one quick peak...i mean, could i peak REALLY hurt me? his parents went in great detail about how they believe i have ADD and hyperactivity disorders, how i come from an extremely dysfunctional background, how i can't sit still or hold any "normal behaviors" and how i am basically one big problem to him and i need some professional help. this went on in over 3 paragraphs. in great detail. i should never have read this, but i did. now i dont know if i should tell my boyfriend that i have. i am really worried that he is going to listen to what they have said. i realize that if he does, then he's not that great anyway...but i just feel guilty for looking at it and i feel like i need to speak in my defense. this was never for me to read and i really never should have. i have learned a lovely lesson. ugh. my boyfriend is 25, and i know he should be capable to make his own choices without having his mother influence him too much. but it really really really really hurts. i have been with him for a year now and i do love him, we help each other out and he is my best friend. his parents said in the email about how i will never break up with him, how i am just going to leach onto him for emotional support and how he needs to make a clean break. this angers me so much inside because i have confided in my boyfriend about my problems and he told his parents (which was ok) but the moment that his parents knew that things weren't perfect they started treating me strange. i dont know what to do. please help.i am in so much pain right now. help. kat Yahoo! Auctions - Buy the things you want at great prices. http://auctions.yahoo.com/ ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 20 Jan 2001 22:53:23 -0800 (PST) From: Jennifer Miller Subject: ET: Human Being This is how others see him and how I see him. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ he has the most beautiful voice it takes you away if you let it his blue eyes that are such a blue that knowone can resist the way he moves, body language you know he isnt perfect. if you were born blind and and never saw him you would fall in love with his soothing voice He is also a human being not some god to worship or obsess over he isnt some one that you just have yourway with in bed, then leave when the pleasure stops. dressing like your 18 when you just turned 15 wont make him want you either I know people who scream over him, but i think they werent screaming for the human being they were screaming for the sex object that they had made him up to be in their mind he is human he does have flaws but no matter how many times I try to tell you this you will beleive that he is: the god in your life the guy you want to lay and the lover you want ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Questions, comments welcome. Holly ===== "Tell me love isnt true, its just something that we do." - -Madonna Yahoo! Auctions - Buy the things you want at great prices. http://auctions.yahoo.com/ ------------------------------ End of eda-thoughts-digest V4 #11 *********************************