From: owner-eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org (eda-thoughts-digest) To: eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org Subject: eda-thoughts-digest V1 #172 Reply-To: eda-thoughts@smoe.org Sender: owner-eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org Errors-To: owner-eda-thoughts-digest@smoe.org Precedence: bulk eda-thoughts-digest Sunday, September 6 1998 Volume 01 : Number 172 Today's Subjects: ----------------- ET: fantasy ["Naomi Vaughn" ] Re: ET: stuff [sesykes@juno.com (Scott - E Sykes)] ET: modern version of titanic 'theme' [moonsong@ix.netcom.com (Charlie, C] Re: ET: stuff [JonBoy911@aol.com] Re: ET: stuff [Angeljlb96@aol.com] ET: FW: your post on the 31st [Karen Miller ] ET: love [kara garbe ] ET: Love Thing [beccahusky1@juno.com (Kristin A Maynard)] ET: a someday song [moonsong@ix.netcom.com (Charlie, Cob & the GoA)] Re: ET: 32 Flavors [Luv2parT4@aol.com] Re: ET: stuff ["Dr. RomeAntic" ] Re: ET: love ["Dr. RomeAntic" ] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sat, 05 Sep 1998 21:23:02 -0700 From: "Naomi Vaughn" Subject: ET: fantasy angels~ here's a poem I wrote this afternoon. my poems have been kinda flat lately, I just haven't put alot of energy into it. I hope everyone is well.. as always, *me* fantasy he's a picture on my wall he's a dream in my head, never to become, any more. I find security in him, for he knows not of my ways nor that I exsist, and he likely never will. but when I feel alone and that ache in my heart, comes once again I comfort myself with fantasies of us being in love with the foolish notions, of "meant to be," and "happily ever after" I know he will never love me, and I will never be a part, of his life except for maybe as a mysterious addition, to some midnight dream. an imaginary figure, that brings a smile, to his sleeping face. that's all I, was ever meant, to be. 9.5.98 - --- "I'm a little bit of everything, all rolled into one" ~Meredith Brooks Angelfire for your free web-based e-mail. http://www.angelfire.com ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Sep 1998 23:18:50 -0500 From: sesykes@juno.com (Scott - E Sykes) Subject: Re: ET: stuff well, it depends if a person believes in a one true love or several. I believe that people are compatible with many people and not with some. It also depends how gullible the person is. I mean, i could say i love you and you would think that i want to spend the rest of my life with you. I've seen people who are looking for love so desperately that the 1st guy they see is the person she will love next! I'll just finish with this, love is out there and there is a lot of it. I believe that we may have a one certain person that we are meant for but falling in love can be made with a lot of people for a lot of reasons. Just let it happen! On Sat, 5 Sep 1998 21:12:50 -0500 zerocool@sunlink.net (Niki) writes: >Hey everyone! Ok I have a question for all of you...how many times do >you >think a person can truly fall in love? At lunch the other day my >friends >and I had a big discussion about that and some people thought that you >can >only fall in love once, others thought that you could fall in love and >then >out and then back in, and then the rest of the people thought that you >could fall in love whenever and with whoever at anytime. I really >don't >know what to think. And do you think it is possible to not fall in >love >with anyone at all? > >And now a question for the guys on this list-what kind of girls do you >like? And how would you feel if some chic that you didn't know walked >up to >you and just started talking an' stuff? Just wondering about this >stuff... > > >*^*NIKI*^* > > > ** Scott S.** -Big Sexy Angel "MISPLACED HATE MAKES DISGRACED RACES!" -Tupac Shakur R.I.P _____________________________________________________________________ You don't need to buy Internet access to use free Internet e-mail. Get completely free e-mail from Juno at http://www.juno.com Or call Juno at (800) 654-JUNO [654-5866] ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Sep 1998 21:45:48 -0700 From: moonsong@ix.netcom.com (Charlie, Cob & the GoA) Subject: ET: modern version of titanic 'theme' Angels, Okie, y'know that "you jump I jump" thing from Titanic (hang with me here peeps, I just saw dat movie again with my family)? Well here's something that happened recently. A man and a woman were crossing a train track, and the woman got her foot caught. There was a train coming, and tha man wouldn't leave her. He stood there and hugged her and held her.... There's a story to touch yer heart. Love Sam the ? angel P.S. Doc Rome.....I can't even tell you enough thanks....It means so much (what you said about "when starlight was popular). moonsong@ix.netcom.com ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Sep 1998 01:07:48 EDT From: JonBoy911@aol.com Subject: Re: ET: stuff In a message dated 9/6/98 1:13:49 AM !!!First Boot!!!, zerocool@sunlink.net writes: << And now a question for the guys on this list-what kind of girls do you like? And how would you feel if some chic that you didn't know walked up to you and just started talking an' stuff? Just wondering about this stuff... >> Ok, I look for a very cool individual person. She has to me smart, and not worry about fitting in. I want to be able to talk to somebody ya know? She has to have compassion in her views. Then you can look at what the person looks like. No matter how beautiful a person's body is, they just don';t look as good if they don't have a good personality. Oh, and if a girl came up to me and started talking to me I would think it was cool. It shows that she is very open. Jon ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Sep 1998 01:59:49 EDT From: Angeljlb96@aol.com Subject: Re: ET: stuff In a message dated 9/6/98 12:10:00 AM Central Daylight Time, JonBoy911@aol.com writes: << Then you can look at what the person looks like. No matter how beautiful a person's body is, they just don';t look as good if they don't have a good personality. >> This reminds me of something. Those of you who know me well, know that I'm obsessed with Christian Bale. My....ex? Can't even call him that...this guy Sean who's liked me since Mardi Gras (Feb. for people who don't know). He looked a LOT like Christian. Yea, well, I kissed him...a lot...but not much more came out of that because he just really wasn't right, and I felt that. The only real interest we shared (and contrary to popular belief...this is not all you need) was Jewel. I dunno...I just didn't feel much with him. So he still calls often...even though his girlfriend's hopelessly in love with him...and I think he's gorgeous, but it's not him...not for me. Anybody notice how my thoughts don't seem to be complete anymore? Now there's a thread for ya! Jamie ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Sep 1998 22:57:45 -0700 From: Karen Miller Subject: ET: FW: your post on the 31st THATS IT!! See that is it! You have just said what is wrong with people.By the way. Answer me this, if this is a thought list why can't i say what i think? just something to think about and mike please spare me the lecure i'm getting to many of those here at home Sure, it's ok for a girl to feel like that. I'd be willing to bet that all girls feel like that. (not that I'd know, seeing as how I'm a guy) Unfortunately, in our society, when a girl acts on those feelings, she's called a slut, whore, and variety of other names. Just thought I'd throw in my $.02 Carpe Diem! James _____________________________________________________________________ You don't need to buy Internet access to use free Internet e-mail. Get completely free e-mail from Juno at http://www.juno.com Or call Juno at (800) 654-JUNO [654-5866] ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Sep 1998 12:05:12 -0400 (Eastern Daylight Time) From: kara garbe Subject: ET: love > << Ok I have a question for all of you...how many times do you > think a person can truly fall in love? At lunch the other day my friends > and I had a big discussion about that and some people thought that you can > only fall in love once, others thought that you could fall in love and then > out and then back in, and then the rest of the people thought that you > could fall in love whenever and with whoever at anytime. I really don't > know what to think. And do you think it is possible to not fall in love > with anyone at all? >> no one can really define love, and as my friend once said, "you're going to love many people in your life, each of them in a different way." once you've been in love, you can love again, but it won't be the same; not necessarily worse or better, just different. personally i think the word "love" is fairly meaningless because there are so many shades and distinctions. love can be a sweet feeling that gives you comfort at seeing that person.... it can be a need so strong that without them you don't want to live... it can be the strength you get from their solid presence at your side. it could be all of these or none of these and something else entirely. i think it's possible to "love" more than once, but who's to say whether one "love" is more true, more strong, more pure than another? if you believe that there is one person out there meant for you, then i think you have to concede that even if you can fall in and out of love, there will be one love that you don't fall out of... and i'd think that that was the purest love of them all. kara _____________________________________________________ "We are each of us angels, with just one wing, and we can only fly embracing each other." --Liciano de Crescenzo ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Sep 1998 13:02:34 -0400 From: beccahusky1@juno.com (Kristin A Maynard) Subject: ET: Love Thing About this love thing. I have to agree with Kara I think you can fall in love a bunch of times and you will love everyone diffrently. There will be that one person whom you will consider the love of your life. There will b others you love deeply. There will be the people you love as friends and of course the people you love in your family. So overall I say there is no limit to how many times you can fall in love, every person is different. :) w/b Love Always, ~Kristin~ "If you cannot say 'I'll die if I don't do it', than you should not do it," -Madonna _____________________________________________________________________ You don't need to buy Internet access to use free Internet e-mail. Get completely free e-mail from Juno at http://www.juno.com Or call Juno at (800) 654-JUNO [654-5866] ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Sep 1998 11:12:15 -0700 From: moonsong@ix.netcom.com (Charlie, Cob & the GoA) Subject: ET: a someday song Hi angulz-on-da-rockers, Well this just might someday become a song. :) So when I'm famous (riiight) you can all say you read it. Sam the ? angel Serene sm Sept 6 98 He said you were beautiful that your eyes were like valleys of ferns and he owned you, like his leather wallet and his iron lamp and antique urn He knew what words to say to make your lips bleed roses to his he saw your hair matched the wheat fields that his grandfather used to till Sad Serene your soul is as pure as your eyes are green Oh sad Serene if only you could have seen.. He took you with him on road trips that brought you to irridescent sunsets your mind saw & said lovely, he saw your mind & took hold he wrote a luring song in the backroads in his truck And one day he left you at home like one of his discarded old guitars he left you in a breeze with a deserted heart and took your smile and his keys Sad Serene your soul is as pure as your eyes are green Oh sad Serene if only you could have seen.. la-da da da da da la-da da-da da moonsong@ix.netcom.com ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Sep 1998 20:53:11 EDT From: Luv2parT4@aol.com Subject: Re: ET: 32 Flavors Hey Angels! I haven't posted in a LOOONG time, but when I saw we were talking about Ani, i had to say something. Her "Not A Pretty Girl" cd is awesome. She plays the guitar so interestingly with a lot of quick starts and stops. One of the greatest songs on there is "The Million That You Never Made". Listen to the words, the girl can write! Al*the*Rain*Angel ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 07 Sep 1998 03:22:27 +0200 From: "Dr. RomeAntic" Subject: Re: ET: stuff Niki wrote: > And now a question for the guys on this list-what kind of girls do you > like? Tough question... I will take this question as a question about personality.I'm not saying looks don't matter to me, but are of secondary importance as long as it's not physical repulsion... I don't believe there's a specific list of things I like...everybody is unique and some things are just crazy to expect... but if I'd have to pick some qualities I found attractive so far... spontaneous behaviour, ability to make conclusions and give opinion on things and back them up, with some personal beliefs and statements - AKA inteligence - sense of humor (any kind) is very important cause I can get really crazy:)) And of course things like : love for music, movies, poetry, culture etc. > And how would you feel if some chic that you didn't know walked up to > you and just started talking an' stuff? Just wondering about this stuff... I'm actually all for that kind of action... but how would I feel depends on what that chic would have to say and how she'd say it... I might get impressed, disgusted or anything in between... I don't have to worry about that... doesn't happen to me... oh unless it's about something irrelevant! Like "what time is it"? Or "do you have some change I'm broke and really need to get on that buss" :)) Have fun and stay beautiful Dr. RomeAntic, an angel with the worst stroke of luck "You look so fine I wanna break your heart And give you mine" Garbage/You Look So Fine/Version 2.0 Catch Dr. RomeAntic's cyber image @ http://www.geocities.com/Paris/Metro/2009 ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 07 Sep 1998 02:59:06 +0200 From: "Dr. RomeAntic" Subject: Re: ET: love kara garbe wrote: > no one can really define love, and as my friend once said, "you're > going to love many people in your life, each of them in a different > way." I agree with this cause no can define love as everybody feels it alittle bit differently... and even if you want to describe how you feel it's virtually impossible... yet only those who've been in love can understand. > once you've been in love, you can love again, but it won't be > the same; not necessarily worse or better, just different. Also agree! > personally i think the word "love" is fairly meaningless because > there are so many shades and distinctions. love can be a sweet > feeling that gives you comfort at seeing that person.... it can be > a need so strong that without them you don't want to live... it > can be the strength you get from their solid presence at your side. > it could be all of these or none of these and something else > entirely. Kara would you read again what you just wrote!? Doesn't makesense. You just said word love is fairly meaningless and after that states all this possibilites... how bout saying it like you said at the beginning... since you love differently every time - love rather has countless meanings... so that makes it very meaningful!!! And if it was truly meaningless to you... would you be saying that if somebody tells you that they love you, it wouldn't mean anything cause word "love" is simply meaningless... I think that is not the case - so how about rethinking about this one? > i think it's possible to "love" more than once, but who's > to say whether one "love" is more true, more strong, more pure than > another? I'm to say! I can't say I love somebody more than you love the sameperson or somebody else... but I can say wheather I love somebody more than another or just as much and in a different way. And why can I say this...because I love(d) so many people... until there once came this girl for whom I had feelings I never dreamt of... so you see, it would be harsh to say that I loved nobody before, but the love wasn't nearly as strong and true and pure... and I call this the real love - just because I put the love for a person (you know like a girlfriend in my case - something that goes above friendship) above all, but as the greatest master of ballads I've heard once said in one of his beautiful songs... "All the real loves are sad"... > if you believe that there is one person out there meant > for you, then i think you have to concede that even if you can fall > in and out of love, there will be one love that you don't fall out > of... and i'd think that that was the purest love of them all. ahhhh... now I can't say if you can have that real love more thanonce since I only had it once, but I believe you can NOT fall out of love once you fell in love with somebody... no matter what happens the reason you fell in love will still remain inside you, and there may be more reasons to hate that person... you might hate them but that will mostly be because of the love you felt and feel... of course most of those feelings go into background... you will always remember how it was to be in love with them... and all those reasons you had. Sometimes we might think it's not fair... but when we say "I don't love you anymore" that is just cause we now have better reasons not to let those for which you love them take over... however, we all know that sometimes - just a single tiny reason makes you love a person you have godzillon resons not to... but there's nothing you can do about it... it is just stronger... Anyway... LOVE is really relative... nobody can feel love the same and to the same extent... however nobody knows when the love is strongest... you maybe just haven't experinced it yet! OK... that is a lot of crap... hopefully somebody understood my point! OH I almost forgot... I also agree with Kara... that if there is somebody who's meant for you - you will be together one way or another! Unfortunately I can not say if it's necessarily a happy togetherness... I'm too young to have such knowledge! - -- Have fun and stay beautiful Dr. RomeAntic, an angel with the worst stroke of luck "You look so fine I wanna break your heart And give you mine" Garbage/You Look So Fine/Version 2.0 Catch Dr. RomeAntic's cyber image @ http://www.geocities.com/Paris/Metro/2009 ------------------------------ End of eda-thoughts-digest V1 #172 **********************************