From: owner-angry-psychos-digest@smoe.org (angry-psychos-digest) To: angry-psychos-digest@smoe.org Subject: angry-psychos-digest V7 #337 Reply-To: angry-psychos@smoe.org Sender: owner-angry-psychos-digest@smoe.org Errors-To: owner-angry-psychos-digest@smoe.org Precedence: bulk X-To-Unsubscribe: Send mail to "angry-psychos-digest-request@smoe.org" X-To-Unsubscribe: with "unsubscribe" as the body. angry-psychos-digest Thursday, December 12 2002 Volume 07 : Number 337 Today's Subjects: ----------------- kpr- boyfriend banned poe [LolipopFailure@aol.com] RE: kpr- boyfriend banned poe ["Pierce, Marshall" ] Animal Avengers show [Tamityville Horror ] PR Animal Avengers abridged version [VR5SBloom@aol.com] Re: kpr: Boyfriend bans Poe? [KrodKnid@aol.com] KPR Boyfriend bans Poe ["Allie T" ] Re: kpr: Boyfriend bans Poe? [PURPLMOJO@aol.com] KPR Boyfriend bans Poe ( had to add something) ["Allie T" Subject: RE: kpr- boyfriend banned poe A terrible thought, could have a terribly long career. =) - -----Original Message----- From: LolipopFailure@aol.com [mailto:LolipopFailure@aol.com] Sent: Wednesday, December 11, 2002 6:38 AM To: angry-psychos@smoe.org Subject: kpr- boyfriend banned poe well, i'm the only chick tyler has ever been with....but hes not my only, so i think he has a complex about it. i don't know......i just really hate it when someone puts a bad thought in your head related to a particular song/artist because you think about it every time you hear it. i do at least. ...and the way the rain comes down hard...that's how i feel inside.... ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2002 10:17:22 EST From: KrodKnid@aol.com Subject: Re: kpr- boyfriend banned poe In a message dated 12/11/2002 6:39:17 AM Eastern Standard Time, LolipopFailure@aol.com writes: > well, i'm the only chick tyler has ever been with....but hes not my only, so > > i think he has a complex about it. i don't know......i just really hate it > > when someone puts a bad thought in your head related to a particular > song/artist because you think about it every time you hear it. i do at > least. > >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> > Girls like Poe scare the shit out of guys like that...so maybe he really > digs you if it makes him squirm to hear you singin' along to that song. > He's afraid he will lose you to a "sleazy" influence:-) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2002 10:37:20 -0500 From: Subject: Re: kpr: Boyfriend bans Poe? Well, I'm sure you tried explaining to him what the song really is about, but its my experience that the ignorant generally choose to remain that way. I'm not saying anything directly about your boyfriend, I don't know him or you, but this brings a up point about a bad trait (that seems to be growing at an alarming rate) in my particular gender (male). It seems that alot of men can't bear to be around women who are 'liberated' (or trying to be) and most women who are a) independent b) secure in their sexuality and c) aware of their own personal power are viewed, more times than not, as a threat. And the backlash can be brutal. What the f**k? I personally have never understood that. I grew up around strong, independent women, but at the same time I've seen more than my share of weak minded and weak willed, vapid women who just give away their personal power with out so much as an afterthought. I guess it's no wonder why I'm with a far from average and typical woman. I don't suffer fools gladly. A woman ( I should say 'girl') who makes no attempt to be independent or a *boy* who has the stud/slut double standard are fools. In my opinion, any *boy* who judges a woman for the same behavior that he and his friends endorse, or is threatened by an independent, free thinking woman needs to wake the f**k up and smell the maple nut crunch. (Kudos to the Denis Leary fans who caught that). I wouldn't let his issues diminish your ability to enjoy Poe or to be yourself, more importantly. Good luck with this situation. Okay, I'm going to stop ranting now. Not quite sure what got into me....this isn't like my usual quiet, observant self. >;p D ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2002 09:32:42 -0800 (PST) From: Tamityville Horror Subject: Animal Avengers show was anyone else at the show last night??? Yahoo! Mail Plus - Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus.yahoo.com ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2002 15:58:04 EST From: VR5SBloom@aol.com Subject: PR Animal Avengers abridged version Shannon Elizabeth's Animal Avengers Holiday Fundraiser 2002 Key Club, West Hollywood, CA December 10, 2002 ShellE Productions review (abridged version) Poe got to the Key Club at 7:50, we rushed her but didn't get much time to talk with her because they needed to go aquire more VIP passes. I had Daris sign my Haunted CD, Poe wanted to but I told her it was already signed and it was for Daris, and she joked that she was insulted. Daris said hey and wow, deja vu, referring to the SoCal RAINN Event. I asked him how much notice he got this time for the show and he said like an hour. I asked Poe if she would be playing with Rhys from Conjure One, but she said no and she had asked him to come the day before. Later on Poe and Johnny were watching AJ from the Backstreet Boys' solo set, while Ken and Daris were at the bar. Angie came out there too a bit later, with a guy from Fishbone. Poe grooved a little during the start of his cover of Play That Funky Music. Then AJ's fiancee did a set. Poe dropped the cap of her Aquafina during the second song of that set. Erik thinks that's too stalkerish of me to say but they were standing next to us the whole time ::P A few songs later they left. OK um Poe was with Daris and Ken, and she was just supposed to be joining in on an all-jam band at the end of the night. But Rotten Apples were missing a band member so Poe went on with two guys from Fishbone, Norwood and Andrew, on bass and drums. Poe played: That Day Angry Johnny Fly Away which then transformed into a jam with a little Poe improv at the end The Fishbone guys didn't know the songs, they hadn't soundchecked or anything so it was Daris leading the whole thing basically ;) Poe was wearing a red top, with her Problem patch on the front and I <3 NY patch on the back, sparkly black skirt and tights and big black shoes. She had her white furry hat. Her hair looked a bit shorter, I'd say she trimmed it, not sure. Fly Away went into a little jam session, Poe pulled up this guy Matt, I can't remember his last name, who had played with another band earlier that night and made him take Daris' guitar to play. They started jamming and Poe watched from the floor, but after a bit the MC, Debra Wilson from Mad TV, pulled Poe aside and they were fussing. Poe got back on stage and started singing about the Rotten Apples coming on stage and another jam coming soon but we gotta take it down. The guys wouldn't stop playing! Eventually they did stop, and the band left. I managed to get Ken to sign my Haunted CD and my trout. He said he got about 3 hours notice for the show ;P I intended to ask Poe about Vegas and it didn't happen again. Derek and Marshall - Poe has your messages! Photos and full review, including celebrity sightings!! to follow on http://shelle.org/ - --Michele ShellE Productions: http://www.shellE.org/ Home of PsYcHovixen, Poe documents (including the Poe discography), Garbage and Poe trading, eXej, 12 Rounds, and Exploration Z: A Haunted House Of Leaves Alternate Universe ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2002 17:54:07 EST From: KrodKnid@aol.com Subject: Re: kpr: Boyfriend bans Poe? In a message dated 12/11/2002 10:39:30 AM Eastern Standard Time, jadeshamrock@mindspring.com writes: > needs to wake the f**k up and smell the maple nut crunch. (Kudos to the > Denis Leary fans who caught that). > >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Wake up and cough the smelly:-) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2002 23:07:16 +0000 From: "Allie T" Subject: KPR Boyfriend bans Poe Hello All Psychos, well i do not uusally write on this list iam ore of a lurker but this message just cheesed me off & i felt i had to say something First of all Eryn, U and everyone else must be a hell of a lot nicer than IAm if my boyf siad somethin like that to me I would make SURE to blast the the F%$#n song EVERY damn time he was in my car (hey if he don't like it he can drive) I would Blast that song and go around siging it I would even go as far as putting the song on my voicemail i would then tell my boyf that ANYONE who makes a character judgement on me based on a song that he does not even uinderstad is WORTHY of MY time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I would do this while wearing my Poe t-shirt too) Ok i will stop yelling now lol but this just sounds so ridiculous to me the song is about her telling some guy iam not the naiive lil girl u think i am --there's more but that's the important part! I agree w/ the ppl who said he might feel threatened oh well god luck anyway take care all Allie I'm no saviour but I tried to save you [IMAGE] --Leona Naess She never finds no trouble...she tries too hard...she's oblivious despite herself.... - --Tori AmosDon't cry, there's always a way. Here in November in this House Of Leaves we'll pray. - ---Poe (A. Danielewski) - ------------------------------------------------------------------------ MSN 8 with e-mail virus protection service: 2 months FREE* ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2002 22:47:29 -0500 From: PURPLMOJO@aol.com Subject: Re: kpr: Boyfriend bans Poe? If people get off the male bashing bandwagon and actually stop to think for a moment. One might be able to rationalize that it is possible the song can affect someone in a negative way. Male or female. Perhaps his ex cheated on him and so yes he does have a issue with Promiscuity. Which what the term slut means, Female who is sexually promiscuous. (In the past this was thought of as a negative. In the pc world this is thought of as good. Pc world sexually promiscuous female= liberated Sexually promiscuous male=two timing jerk) By that rational if the guy was cheated on and he does have issues with being cheated on, then stands to reason song about promiscuity(least how he interprets it) would be offensive. However he may have lacked tact in how he addressed it, Atleast he was being open and honest about his feelings. Also chaotic reactions like blasting the music to piss them off and doing everything else possible to continue insulting or hurting thier feelings is reactionary & equally lacking in the consideration and feelings of hurt one might have felt from the comment. Irregardless of whether he was cheated on, Most people the thought of someone they care deeply romantic about or Love find the thought of the significant other being sexually promiscuous an appalling thought as well as stir up either insecurity issues or jealousy and such feelings are not limited to so called insecure Males. Most people also do not want to imagine their significant other being wanton & lustfull with other people. I myself find the idea of someone sexually promiscuous a good thing. I think there should be free love and orgy's. A decadent society may lead to collapse of society & goverments, but we would have a great time getting there and would surely end with a bang LOL "My girl will do you and rest of your friends, She'll do whatever you want, But at the end of the day. Baby comes home to me"-Adam sandler song (this is not actuale lyrics, but I didn't want to be to vulgar as there are youngins on the list) ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 12 Dec 2002 04:08:09 +0000 From: "Allie T" Subject: KPR Boyfriend bans Poe ( had to add something) Had to add something guys politenes is key here If my boyf had siad nicely "i really do not like that song please do not play it in front of me " I wouldn't i would respect his wishes and not play it when he was in my car cos he asked nicely !!!! It seems to me our guy in quetion here could have done that instead ! ok now im done for good Allie I'm no saviour but I tried to save you [IMAGE] --Leona Naess She never finds no trouble...she tries too hard...she's oblivious despite herself.... - --Tori AmosDon't cry, there's always a way. Here in November in this House Of Leaves we'll pray. - ---Poe (A. Danielewski) - ------------------------------------------------------------------------ MSN 8 helps ELIMINATE E-MAIL VIRUSES. Get 2 months FREE*. ------------------------------ End of angry-psychos-digest V7 #337 ***********************************